Five Quotes That I Live By

My flowerphotography and my quotes in a calendar 2017

The way an idea is expressed can affect judgments about it merit. This is how quotes and saying affect the life of millions of people. There are Bible verses that also followed and take by heart by many people, and there are also quotes and sayings.

People in general have an appetite for well-expressed wisdom, motivational, inspirational, or otherwise. There are quotes that are straightforward and convey hatred, bitterness, hopeless. And there  are quotes that are calming, sweet, and gives hope.

I would like to share with you five of my favorite quotes or saying. Maybe while you are reading this, you may also ask yourself, how these quotes can affect you as a human being, or how it can affect your personal relationship.

You are not everyone's cup of tea and it's okay.

YOU ARE NOT EVERYONE'S CUP OF TEA. I'm loving this one. One of the keys to a happy life is to accept the fact that not all people will like us no matter how much we tried to please them. It could be a heavy burden on our shoulder if we live our life to please others. As long as we live a good life, we have a good conscience, and we have a good sleep at night, that matters. You are not everyone's cup of tea and that is okay.

reality bites :) 

YOU KNOW YOUR LIFE HAS CHANGED WHEN GOING TO THE GROCERY STORE BY YOURSELF IS A VACATION. So, this is what real motherhood is! For some reasons, many mothers need to leave their children. There are mothers who sacrifice their relationship with their children by leaving them to work abroad. Once a woman became a mother, she sees it herself that one of the big changes is that her time is more for her child. But I do not understand it when a mother leaves her child to go for fun and to behave like she is a single.

Creativity comes from a life that full of love.

A LIFE LIVED IN LOVE WILL NEVER BE DULL. This is so true. When we are so in love with our own life, smiles and laugh are contagious, we become very creative, and every moment is special. Life becomes dull when we harbor resentment and grudges in our heart.

we are all entitled of happiness.

I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS. Admit it, there are times in our life that when we feel sad and worthless, we blame it to some people or situation. During those difficult periods of my life, I have learned that my happiness depends only to me, to myself. Our happiness depends on how we react to people or to the situation. Do not underestimate the happy disposition. Accept that there are things in life that are not meant to be.

in friendship, there is no big, there is no small.

I'M NOT INTERESTED IN WHETHER YOU STOOD WITH THE GREAT. I'M INTERESTED IN WHETHER YOU'VE SAT WITH THE BROKEN. As the world gets smaller because of the technology, the more the people become cold hearted, distant, and live with so much pride. The true meaning of friendship becomes elusive, and so is the word compassion. I am thankful to those people who treat me fair.

By the way, I have my own quotes in a calendar 2017. You can view on my online calendar gallery. You can find the link on the right side of this blog. Thank you and I am wishing you a great life too!

Five Things How Motherhood Changed My Life

my 30 minutes old son

I remember that moment when me and my husband will tell a good news to my parents that I am pregnant. I was holding my phone and talking to my mother. My tears began to roll down in my cheeks and I lost for words. I gave the phone to my husband and it was him who told my parents that we are going to have a new family member soon.

learning to breastfeed

Time flies. From that day, that baby is now a toddler and a preschooler. My life has changed tremendously. There were times that I am asking myself, am I still the same person? Or motherhood made me a better person?
The day that I delivered my son, most mothers knows it that it is the day filled with pain and emotion, but also a time for a resolution. I promise to myself and to my child that I will do my best to become a good mother.

my son's first holiday in the Philippines

and his second holiday in my country Philippines

Now, I tried to list how motherhood changes my life. I have five and it is compact. If you have any additional, please feel free to write in the comment box. I and other mothers will appreciate that.

1. Myself. My Identity. Now that I am a mother, my life is not for myself alone. Almost round the clock, there is a little creation who depends on me. My identity is instantly integrated with my son. He became my extension. When I am going out without him, people who know us, ask me right away: where is Burt? They don't mind where is my husband, but they mind it that my child is not with me.

his firs month as preschooler

2. My time. When I became a mother, I have learned the shortcuts. I can shower, eat a meal, in five minutes. For the time being, I set aside the leisure. Time to be with my son for me is the most important and something precious. I like him to feel that he can turn to me when he needs me without teaching him to become dependent and needy.

always ready to lend his helping hand :)

3. My social life. One thing that I am thankful for is that even I have my family now, I still have freedom, and enjoying that freedom. But for me, my freedom is relative, has boundaries. There are times that I like to go out with some friends and my husband takes charge to our son. I don't have a curfew, but it is that feeling that I already miss my son so much and being without him for a long period scares me. I love and I enjoy being with my friends, but because of motherhood, I feel that there is more enjoyment to be with my family. Family time for me, is priceless.

my most favorite subject

my buddy even in my meetings

4. My outlook in life. Motherhood has taught me to be more respectful to mothers. We have been through to the same shoes, riding on the same boat, and I feel now how it takes to become a mother. Motherhood also taught me to look at every step I take, how it can affect my family especially my son. Almost on every decision and plan is for the long term, for the benefit of my family, of my son.

a funny boy

my bestfriends, my boyfriends

Burt

5. Bringing back more the childlike heart in me. When I first took my son in my arms, I felt like I was floating in sensation, I feel how much I love him. At the same time, I am a bit scared what the future brings to me as a first time mother. It says that if you want to win your child's heart, don't go by the rules. And I take this by heart. Child discipline and training are such a big issue. My childlike heart helps me to reach hearts, now I want to use it to reach the heart of my son. It is important that a child feels a family bond as well as the friendship within the family. We are playmates, we are a team, we are friends, and most all we are family.

I just hope that until to his adult life, my son would be also be proud that I am his mother.